**ADULTS PLEASE READ...NEED SERIOUS ADVICE.THANKS?

HI.. 26 yrs old female here. I was actually on her last night and asked a question...and everyone who answered was very helpful with their opinion..so thank you . So i guess the issue im having now ...which is similar to the question i asked last night...i dont know what to do about my almost 4 yr relationship i have been in. I feel very heart broken, confused, scared ect :( To sum up my story again. Im with my bf of three and a half yrs all the time. We do not live together but im constantly at his house or spending the night. I have no friends and pretty much dont ever go anywhere out of the ordinary except his house, my house, or my sisters house. Him and I dont really do much...but lay around his house..or maybe go fishing or something. He doesnt have ne friends really and the 3 yrs we've been together we've never hung out with any friends or any other couple. Thats besides the point. So to get to the point. He works nights and sleeps all day till about 730pm. I was at home and very bored on a hot day and wanted to get out of my house so i went shopping. Was gone for a few hrs because i went a few stores. I always take forever but rarley go shopping. Anyways..i left at 5pm and got home at 10pm. I called him as soon as i got home and he freaked out. He always wants me to be considerate of him and let him know if im going somewhere or what im doing for the day which is understandable, but he always says its only cuz he worries about me. I think that might be true to a certain extent, but i feel for the most part he might be insecure a lil, or maybe paranoid, or might want to have controll of me a lil i dunnoooo. But i always try to do what makes him comfortable and be a good gf. But last night he called me a lier and demanded me to send him a video to his e mail of my receipts! he said he wanted proof! i said to him that he should trust me and im not sending him my receipts. We then argued for several hrs online. and i eventually caved in. I sent him a video of my reciepts to prove my where abouts, but was very pissed off and said some mean things. After he seen the video, he asked me to forgive him and said he was very sorry. He just wanted to see proof. I feel like he should trust me regardless of any situation..we've been together almost 4 yrs. Anyways...i said that i didnt forgive him..and the only reason he was srry is cuz he got his sense of controll and what he wanted..and seen that i was not lying. I told him that we were over and to never contact me again. Today..he sent me a message trying to make me feel bad i think...and said " I only asked to see your receipts but of course you over dramatize everything...you want me gone..then fine..im never coming back...cant believe you ended our relationship over this! ** i kind of feel bad...but i have givin him no reason to not trust me...i dont go anywhere or talk to neone. I felt dis respected. IF there is no trust...he will always ask for proof and i dunno if LOVE is worth putting up with that. BUT ive been with him for a very long time..i didnt really want to break up with him..but i feel we will never see eye to eye on this topic. but we have broken up many times before...and i never can go more than 2 weeks with out him. Im nervous..scared to loose him...but dont know if its worth it nemore. Live without someone i love to not be controlled and be with someone thats possesive of me...or stay cuz i love him and put up with it.He even admitted to being controlling and possesive and said ..this is what i need and if you dont like it then leave. NEED SOME ADVICE PLEASE...WHAT WOULD YOU DO?